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  • Good Morning Vietnam!!

    June 6th, 2023

    Hello (Xin Chao pronounced sin chow) from Ho Chi Minh. I am well and hope you are too. I still struggle to wrap my head around the fact that as I start my mornings here, you are finishing your prior evenings in the United States!🀯

    Last evening, I spoke to my sister-in-law Maryellen. I am grateful to report that Steve has finally turned a corner and was transferred to a Rehab Center the day before I left where he is getting a bit stronger every day!What a relief!! πŸŽ‰πŸ₯³πŸŽŠ He was only supposed to be hospitalized post transplant for 5 – 14 days but was there almost 32 days because of all of the complications. He still has a long way to go to get back to baseline but he’s working hard there and should be home in a few weeks to continue his recovery. Go Steve Go ❀️

    Yesterday was orientation and today was our first day volunteering at the hospital. I postponed my sightseeing week until next week because there will be more volunteers available to go with me then.

    I’m staying across the street from the volunteer house which is actually a dormitory in a local Hospitality College.

    Volunteer Dormitory

    We eat together over there and relax in a rooftop garden in the evenings. In the daytime, we hide inside in the air conditioning because just like Africa it is tropical here with high humidity and temps in the low 90s. But there is a good deal of air conditioning and always power for the fans so warm but very bearable.

    I had to laugh today when I took a step back to take this all in. Although Ghana and Vietnam are both 3rd world countries, I didn’t realize it at the time but when I picked Ghana as my first trip, that was definitely one of the hardest volunteer experiences I could have chosen-aka a volunteer Marathon. In comparison, Vietnam feel like a mere 10 mile training run in so many ways.

    There are 9 million people in Ho Chi Minh City. Most people ride mopeds. It feels like walking the streets of New York City except that there don’t seem to be a lot of traffic rules for the mopeds. They ride on the streets + sidewalks, they ride against traffic if they only have a short distance to travel and they park their thousands of mopeds on the sidewalks so pedestrians often have to walk in a very narrow path in the street where the traffic is flying past you about 12″ away! It is utter chaos! Organized chaos that they seem to understand but we’re still trying to figure it out. (Cheryl- this makes Bermuda moped riding look like a beginner’s sport!!) We are not allowed to rent mopeds here and I must agree, even for this adrenaline junkie, that’s probably a really good idea!!

    There are no rules for stopping for pedestrians. It’s kind of like playing that video game Frogger and hoping you can hop through the traffic before you get squashed! In fact, one of our volunteers skipped an excursion on the ferry last week because she couldn’t cross a busy street to get to the dock! The locals had a good laugh at her but I totally get it!

    This was taken on Sunday. Come Monday, this was a sea of mopeds where you couldn’t even see pavement.

    Being that we are in a big city, the resources are right at our fingertips. Anything I need is a block away. I popped into a convenience store just to see what they sell and found this next to the Pringles. I stood there for a while trying to figure out what I was looking at…

    Chicken Feet! Regular or Spicy! 🀒 I’ll stick to my Cheddar Pretzels!

    We walk everywhere (VERY CAREFULLY) which I love, probably about 4 miles a day back and forth from the hospital and out to the local market for special family dinners every Monday night. In fact, the first night I was here, one of our volunteer coordinators (Anna) invited a few of us long-term volunteers to her home for dinner. We got to see an authentic Vietnamese apartment, meet her family and share her delicious Pho (pronounced Phah). That was so kind and generous of her to do. We are in good hands for sure!

    I must go, time to meet the volunteers for lunch and then we head back to the hospital this afternoon. This morning I followed a physical therapist, Than, into the elderly Rehab unit. One of our first patients Diet (pronounced deet) was in his 80s and was missing his right eye. I suspected he was probably a former Vietnamese soldier who lost his eye in the war. Than confirmed that for Me. When Diet made eye contact with me, he smiled, waved and stared at me for a very long time. It felt like he was looking deep into my soul. As I held his hand, I felt a huge rush of emotion. I hope that he could read in my eyes the empathy that I was sending him for the suffering my country had imposed on him and his people all those years ago.

    So much more to tell, so little time now. Chat soon❀️

    Xoxo Sheila

  • Home Sweet Home Alabama….uh Asia!

    June 3rd, 2023

    After stepping onto that Concord Coach Bus in Portland, ME about 30 hours ago (thank you Cathy DπŸ€—)….I am so happy to say that I finally just stepped foot into my new nest in Ho Chi Minh at the First Hotel. It is a 1 min walk from the IVHQ Volunteer House where I will eat/work/travel with the medical volunteers staying there.

    It’s a bit of a step up from GhanaπŸ˜‡ My new friend Ling cranked up the AC. Now it’s time to shower, brush my teeth and pop an Ativan since it’s 1am Sun here but 2pm Sat in Maine- this night owl doesn’t usually go to bed in the afternoon!! Better living thru pharmaceuticals this week as I reset those Circadian Rythms!

    Vi from IVHQ is meeting Me in the lobby at 10am tomorrow after breakfast to take Me to the Volunteer House to meet everyone. So Sweet Dreams and have a wonderful weekend everyone. Let our summer adventures begin in πŸ‡»πŸ‡³ + wherever you are!!❀️😎❀️

    Xoxo Sheila

  • Leaving on a Vietnamese Jet plane

    June 2nd, 2023

    Welcome back to my blog my friends!! Flight leaves in 90 min from Logan then 16hrs later we touch down in Seoul! Plan is to be in Ho Chi Minh (former Saigon) by 12:30pm Eastern Time tomorrow. Vietnam is 11hrs ahead of Boston so I’ll go back to sending you all a nice day or a kiss on the moon from a day or night that we’ve already had by the time the sun or moon makes it to the US.

    I held a globe recently and put my 2 pointer fingers on Maine and Vietnam. It was almost a direct shot pointing straight thru the center of the globe. This reminded Me of when I was a kid digging holes at Hampton Beach. I was told if I dug deep enough, I’d come out in China! (I think that was just a parental ploy to keep us digging longer so they could delay taking us into that nippy Altantic Ocean!!)🀣 Regardless, I remember hoping to find myself landing upside down in China at any minute. Apparently I hadn’t had any geology classes yet where I would have learned about that earthly hot molten core! Surely that may have melted my indestructable Fisher Price shovel long before my arrival in Asia!!

    I’ve missed our regular chats here on the blog and thoroughly enjoyed my time with those of you who joined Me for some fun or rented to/hosted Me during the last 4 months in Maine.

    Hope you are off to a wonderful start to your summers! I’ll be back Aug 26th but in the meantime, I am SO EXCITED that you are all coming with Me again!!!! β€οΈπŸ€—β€οΈ

    P.s. I won’t be able to text as of tomorrow since I will be changing SIM cards but you can message Me here, on WhatsApp or email shodonnell3@gmail.com

    To message Me on the blog, just tap on any blog title then scroll way down to the comments box OR if you get email alerts from the blog, you can respond that way too. I see your messages, try to respond to all of them and absolutely love to connect like that!!

    Aloha, Sheila❀️

  • Liver On a Rollercoaster

    May 21st, 2023

    Hello everyone-I hope you are all well and getting your fun summer plans finalized. As for my summer in Vietnam, I have decided to continue this same blog on this site rather than starting a new blog. These blogs are not user-friendly to set up and I don’t want all of you to have to re-register for the updates … so stay right here and join me in Ho Chi Minh!!! 😍

    As for Steve’s Liver Journey it has been less than smooth. That poor guy and his wife have been through the wringer. We were told he would go home somewhere between 5 days and 2 weeks after his transplant. Well 2 weeks was YESTERDAY and he’s nowhere close to going home because he has had a lot of setbacks. Up until 2 days ago, he has been exhibiting some stroke- like + seizure-like behaviors for almost a week. Then his gut stopped working so his tube feeds were shut off. Have I mentioned how emaciated he already is? Four more days without feeding was not ideal yet understandably necessary. It was quite scary and very depressing wondering if the condition he was in was his new norm.πŸ’”

    MRIs were delayed several days because Lahey was already behind on those and the Emergency Dept was bombarded. Finally yesterday the MRI showed he had not had a stroke and that these abnormal behaviors were probably a very serious side effect of the anti-rejection meds which had been stopped for several days last week when his levels became toxic. Those meds can take up to 10 days to clear out of your system after being stopped so slowly his symptoms have been subsiding.

    We were all so excited last night because he had had a pretty good two days. Feeds were back on and those scary neurological symptoms seemed to be subsiding. In fact, when I rolled him on his side and was rubbing his back, I made a joke asking, “How do you keep your girlish figure?” And instead of staring blankly at the wall he actually coherently made a joke right back to Me!! πŸ₯³ (I was so excited that I forgot what he actually said!!).

    Then this afternoon I get the call that he’s had 2 modest setbacks again today. Honest to God!! Give a guy and his very supportive wife a break! More tests to follow tomorrow. Please join us with more prayers for brighter days ahead soon. πŸ™πŸ» Thank you all for the love, support and concern that you have so generously given already. We deeply appreciate You β€οΈπŸ’•β€οΈ

  • Liver Update…. and finally, it’s a good one!!

    May 6th, 2023

    Hello my friends! I hope all is well in your worlds❀️

    It has been a very rough 2 years for my brother Steve but I am thrilled to report that after 2 unsuccessful attempts since early March, today he had a successful liver transplant!!! 🎊πŸ₯³πŸŽ‰

    This was a HUGE relief because honestly we were starting to question how much longer he could live in the frail condition that he was in. We are deeply grateful for a 61-year-old man from somewhere in the United States who gave Steve a second chance at life when his ended.

    Thank you for all of your thoughts, prayers and well wishes. We ask, if you would be so kind, for a few more for the donor and his family as well as for Steve’s body to accept and not reject this precious gift. Only time will tell but so far he’s doing beautifully. β€οΈπŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»β€οΈ

    As an exciting side note, I will be leaving for Vietnam on June 2nd for 3 months to do another medical trip. I honestly thoroughly enjoyed having all of you with Me in Africa on this blog and hope that you will join me again in Asia!! ❀️❀️ I will probably start a new blog for that trip but I will put the link here so you will know how to find it.

    Happy Spring and Happy Days to All!!

    Xoxo Sheila

  • Surgery Cancelled

    March 9th, 2023

    Thank you all for your prayers and support. I am sad to report that the liver had problems so it could not be used. Surgery cancelled πŸ’”

    We are hopeful that another liver will become available soon. Please keep the prayers coming. I will keep you posted.

  • Prayers Please from Around the World for a Very Important Patient Here

    March 8th, 2023

    My oldest brother Steve has been very sick for almost 2 years. He and his wife got the call last night and are on their way to the Operating Room in Boston within the next hour or so to receive a liver transplant!!

    Feeling so deeply grateful, excited and concerned all at the same time!

    We are asking for your prayers, love and white light from around the world for not only a successful surgery for Steve but also for the patient and family out there who are so generously offering him the ultimate gift, the gift of a new life.

    With Deep Gratitude,

    Sheila β€οΈπŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ½πŸ™β€οΈ

  • Keeping a finger on the pulse of Frankadua

    March 7th, 2023

    Hello my beautiful blog circle!! It has been such a treat squeezing so many of you in person and spending quality time together again. And at the same time, I really miss hearing from my out-of-state friends on such a regular basis. That African experience brought us all closer which felt so wonderful to Me. Sending love and big squeezes to all of you across the miles too!! ❀️ Feel free to reach out anytime. I’m back to regular texting and emailing aka no need for WhatsApp at least until June. I’m going to keep you in suspense until the end of this post for that update😁

    I’m excited to start with some wonderful news … Lydia had her successful thyroid removal surgery last week. It was quite extensive and was a bit of a struggle for several days which is why this report is a bit delayed. But she has recovered so nicely!!

    Lydia 2 days post-op

    She had some post op bleeding which you can see so her daughter had to donate blood. That’s how they do it there since they don’t have blood banks-if you need blood, your family donates for you.

    Now wait until you see this next picture. I’ve never seen Lydia smile … until now πŸŽ‰πŸŽŠ ….

    Final dressing removal. Rosary beads still around her neck.

    Isn’t she beautiful?? What a thrill to see her thriving again!!

    Lydia has a big follow-up appointment this Friday. Elvis has a list of questions I need answered. My hope is that her blood pressure has normalized so she can come off of her BP medication and that several other problems related to her sick thyroid have resolved too. Lydia will need to be on thyroid medication for the rest of her life. Thanks to the generosity of so many, we will make that happen.

    She has also asked Me for money for food. This is always such a dilemma because it is so difficult to discern who truly doesn’t have adequate food supplies vs who is asking because they know there is cash coming their way so why not ask for the most they can possibly get?

    I do understand the mindset of trying to capitalize on an opportunity so I’m not upset that she asked but I need to triage the funds that I have in order to try to do the most good for the most people. Lydia has received a lot of financial support for this surgery which was worth every penny but it’s someone else’s turn now. Also, she will soon be back to working at her shop earning money again. And she has a 20-year-old daughter that is helping her. So based on what I know about them, I think they will be fine. (I truly do believe that it never hurts to ask … but I also truly believe that I always have the right to say no when deemed necessaryπŸ˜‡)

    Now in true Ghana fashion, there was another patient needing serious help before I could even get Lydia wrapped up. The gap in the delivery of Medical Care out there is absolutely staggering so there is never a shortage of patients.

    Last week during wound care out on the farms, Richmond and the new volunteers were approached by Agbesi. He is a 30yo man who had a 7 day old, serious laceration on his left wrist from his machete. Now I do have a picture of that and you know how much I love to analyze these photos. But don’t fret, I will spare you this one! Take my word for it, his wrist was infected, wide open and in great need of IV antibiotics / x-rays / dressing. But he did not have health insurance and had no money for medical care.

    Team Richmond/Elvis/Sheila+friends were back in action. The following morning, a car was coordinated to transport Agbesi to a hospital in Atimpoku where he has been for about 4 days and where he did receive the care above along with a blood transfusion.

    It is SO nice to see Agbesi smiling because when I met him several days ago on a video call from his village, he was understandably in crisis. What a difference a few days, some Medical Care and a good dose of compassion has made for this man. And as usual, my main men in Frankadua were pivotal in helping to make this happen. Thanks guys!!

    If Agbesi is stable, then tomorrow morning, Richmond and Elvis will coordinate another car to go pick up our patient and bring him home.

    This may sound like a happy little ending but it is quite a bit more complicated than what has been shared so far. Agbesi has limited use of his right hand because it appears he severed some important structures like tendons or ligaments. He likely needs an extensive surgery which right now really isn’t a possibility for Me to offer. And honestly even if I could afford it, I’m not even sure this intricate surgery could be done there-or done well??

    Managing seriously wounded or ill patients from this far away is proving to be quite complicated for a multitude of reasons:

    – there is very little wound care support in the Ghanian Healthcare System

    -my primary assistants (Richmond and Elvis) have no medical training

    – the medical volunteers there often are students OR have minimal wound care training and their turnover is constant.

    -There are very few long-term volunteers. The one that was supposed to come for 6mo soon after I left has been delayed due to Visa issues

    – there is a great deal of corruption in that country. And although I trust my guys implicitly with these patients, we are dealing with surgeons/hospitals who are virtual strangers to us so the corruption surveillance goes on alert.

    There is a lot to be figured out. I promised when I left that I was not going to cut ties with these patients and I meant it. I would love to continue to work with a wound care team back there to help these desperate people. But there is no consistently structured mobile wound care team there at this point in time.

    I was able to keep that program running smoothly when I was there using my own medical skills to assess, triage and coordinate with my logistical assistants Elvis+Richmond. But there really needs to be consistent medical professionals in Ghana that I can work through. They know the system and the resources (or lack there of) far better than this grateful 6mo visitor. Together I know we could be great but trying to manage this as the sole consistent medical person from 4,500 mi away is not the answer.

    What to do, what to do?? Considering several options right now including a GoFundMe page to tap into the general public’s financial resources. Will circle back to pick the brains of some of the healthcare professionals that I worked with over there- specifically Ralph at the Apeguso Clinic who did such a great job debriding/dressing/healing some serious wounds we co-managed. Will chat with my friend Prosper the PA in Atimpoku Clinic who may not want to climb another steep mountain with Me in 100 degree heat out there anytime soon (Me neither Bro) BUT who expressed an interest in possibly launching a wound care program of his own. Knock Knock Prosper, ready or not here I come…I’ll be chatting you up soon.

    If any of you reading this blog have any experience or ideas in any project even remotely like this, I would love your input.

    Time to wrap this up so I’ll end on an exciting note… actually two exciting notes!

    Firstly, 2 weeks ago, Mary’s 18mo Nataki started Preschool! That Baby Girl is so preciousπŸ₯° Mom and Toddler are holding up well.

    Priceless!!

    And last but not least, I completely enjoyed bringing all of you to Ghana with Me. So if you’d like to come, I’ll bring you all with me to Vietnam in early June for 3 months!! I’ll be booking the flights tomorrow to Ho Chi Minh City, the former Saigon. This time, it will be an inpatient volunteer placement in a Rehab/Orthopedic hospital. So stay tuned Blog Buddies, we’re not done yetπŸ’–

    Xoxo Sheila

  • Still Wrapping Up Some Patient Care Across the Miles

    February 7th, 2023

    I’m back!!…in the States and on the blog. This entry comes to you from a much cozier bed in Maine sans mosquito net but with a heating pad instead of a ceiling fan. Because in 1 flight,Β  I sprang out of the frying pan and into the freezer!! It was a literal 140 degree temperature change in 24 hours! But no complaints here-my heat rashes have finally cleared up and my scalp is starting to look more human again and less like alligator hide.

    Near the end of my journey, there was one really interesting story that I haven’t had a chance to share yet. Those final 2 weeks were so busy wrapping up loose ends before I left, this saga went untold. Remember I’ve said that it rarely went easily when patients came to our house after dark, asking for help with a scarf wrapped around a body part? Well 10 days before I left,Β  it happened again. And once again, I was caught off guard by what I found.

    One evening, right after dinner, I heard the familiar line from our cooks on the porch,Β  “Miss Sheila you have a patient out here.” I grabbed the medical bag and headed outside. I found a man and a woman in their 40s looking my way. He introduced himself as the “Honorable Victor” and the woman as Lydia. “Honorable” just sounded so pompous to Me so I took the opportunity to be a bit of a smartass and introduced myself as The Honorable Sheila with a little smirk on my face. As it turns out, he was the Mayor of the next town over and that is how Mayors introduce themselves in Ghana. Oops! (If he had taken offense, I would have told him that’s how Nurse Practitioners introduce themselves in America!🀣)

    As the introductions were taking place, I kept looking at Lydia’s lower legs and hands to see where the wound was but I wasn’t seeing anything? Finally Victor told me that Lydia had a thyroid goiter. She needed money to have surgery to remove it and begin thyroid medicine therapy. Then he continued with what I thought was a pretty miraculous story.

    Victor had been in Accra on business that week which again was 3 hours away from us. He wanted something to drink because it was so hot and dry that day (ya it sure was Victor, just like EVERY day thereπŸ˜…!!)

    Now you have to understand that there were probably 20 different people he could have approached who were selling drinks on that city corner that day but he picked Lydia’s shop!?! When he was speaking with her he noticed that she had difficulty talking and was wearing a scarf around her neck so he asked her if something was wrong. She removed the scarf and told him that she’s been dealing with a thyroid goiter for 10 years. It was getting so large that she was now having difficulty swallowing solids and it was starting to affect her airway.

    What was very fortunate for Lydia that fateful day is that Victor is the mayor of Apeguso which is one town away from our volunteer house. He offered to bring her to us knowing that she might be able to find help since some volunteers donate money for medical care.

    I turned to Lydia who although didn’t speak much English, knew Victor was asking Me to help her. She had tears in her eyes. I asked him to ask her to remove her scarf and here was what I saw…

    I accidentally gave a small gasp because I couldn’t believe this poor lady was living like this! She had been dealing with this issue worsening over the last 10 years. I had never seen anything like this before because where I’m from, people get help long before it gets to this.πŸ’”

    I took her blood pressure and it was sky high – 190 / 100. She showed me some test results that had been done the week prior. Since the thyroid helps control so many of our bodily functions, she had an abnormal EKG, low red blood cell counts, abnormal thyroid studies etc etc

    Then she pulled out the 4000 cedi quote (~400 American dollars) for her surgery and asked for the money to cover this surgery. I kept looking at her thinking about how desperate she was and at the same time realizing that I had no donation money left and had already doubled the money I intended to donate out of my own pocket.

    Those thoughts all flashed by in just a few seconds because here was a woman that was running out of time and options. Besides, what is the cost of a human life anyways? It’s certainly a whole lot more than what she was asking!!…so the answer was yes.

    She fell to the ground sobbing, hugging my knees and repeatedly saying thank you. I immediately took her by the arm, stood her up and said, “Please stand up Lydia, we are equals here.” We hugged instead.

    As they left that night, I kept thinking about how fortunate Lydia was that Victor had business in Accra, that he was aware of our volunteer house because of where he lived, that he found her that day in the city and that he got her to our house just before I left Ghana. Was I witnessing Divine Intervention? A lot of planets sure lined up perfectly that day!

    There’s a final amazing part to this story. A few days after I met Lydia, I received an email from one of my favorite former volunteers-an RN from Canada that had been with Me in Ghana back in November for a few weeks. She said she wanted to wire some money to Me to help defer some of my medical expenses. I was really grateful and thought this was so sweet but told her not to worry about it because it was way too complicated to wire money out there. As I was writing this email reply I was interrupted and never finished it. Then later that evening, Lydia and her 20yo daughter were back in our yard with an update. They had spent several hours on a TroTro from Accra to talk to Me. Due to the abnormal tests, she needed to take some high dose iron, blood pressure meds and do a repeat EKG before they could do the surgery. This would all cost another $200. She had documentation showing all of this.

    So back to my email draft box I went to continue the reply…I finished that email saying, “Hold the phones, actually yes, if you could wire the money, that would be fantastic! Here’s why…”

    I think after a very difficult 10 years, Lydia’s luck was finally changing. Her path to my door and timing on both visits in Jan 23′ was almost beyond belief!

    Right after I flew home, my right hand man Elvis picked up the wired money in Accra and sent me a picture of him giving it to Lydia!

    Her surgery is tentatively scheduled for next week as long as the follow up testing improves. I will keep you posted.

    In the meantime, Lydia could use plenty of good thoughts/prayers/juju white light and lots of positive, healing energy.❀️

    As I often say to Elvis, πŸ™πŸ½+πŸ™πŸ»=πŸ₯³

  • I’m Leaving on Jetplane

    January 30th, 2023

    Unbelievable… I’m at the gate and will be boarding my flight in a few hours bound for Washington, DC USA Baby!!!! πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡²

    My heart is filled with GREAT excitement to be home again in my own country (a land that I appreciate more than ever) with dearly missed family and friends….but my heart is absolutely aching for all of the wonderful people I leave behind-my African family, patients, friends and medical colleagues. I hope to see them again some day but realistically, it won’t be everyone and it will be a while at best.

    What a tough week filled with way too many Goodbyes. I came experiencing competing opposite emotions and I leave feeling them stronger than ever.

    Here is what I mean. It has been 6 months of being immersed in the lives of so many in Ghana πŸ‡¬πŸ‡­ . This created some deep bonds which was AMAZING!! And at the same time, it put Me in the center of so many people asking for so much. There were some that deeply appreciated my efforts and others who I think I could literally have donated my last pint of blood and they would still be disappointed and asking for more. Some of that is the result of desperation, some of it is a result of the entitlement by several of the locals who literally make a living milking the volunteers. But whatever the reason, that part of this adventure was often overwhelming and I definitely won’t miss that!

    Back to those deep bonds and those who showed great appreciation that will be dearly missed.

    Started the week saying Goodbye to my medical colleagues at the city clinic in Atimpoku.

    Joyce my Midwife Friend who adopted my nerve block suggestion for circumcisions. She got my Medical clogs so she can remember how proud I am of her for that!!
    Candy+Precious (RNs) along with Prosper (PA) gave me these pics from our weekend getaway

    Thursday was Goodbye day at our local clinic. That was a hard one because this staff has been a huge help in our wound care program. They did things for patients that I couldn’t do out in their huts-IV antibiotics, stitches etc when needed. And several of these staff members lived close to Me so were my neighbors too.

    Giftie-Girl (Midwife and friend)…I will miss You!!

    Then on Friday, Richmond and I did the final Wound Care visits on his motorcycle. Those Goodbyes were REALLY hard because I tried so hard to give them the care they deserve but don’t usually receive. My hope is that I can vid chat with the next 6mo medical volunteer after they read my notes for continuity of care. Thank You Richmond for also playing photographer without even being asked❀️

    Last night was very sweet. Richmond’s band came to our house to give a Goodbye+Thank You concert. Several staff members from the clinic, neighbors and our house staff were there.

    Richmond’s solo
    Mary+Millie (our cooks/my daughters) and Giftie (Midwife/friend) were some of the guests

    Then today I packed. It took twice as long because my 18mo helper took things out of my suitcase as fast as I could get them in there. But I didn’t mind at all. I love our Little Nataki and would gladly have packed her too if I could have but Momma Mary would never have let that happen!

    After lunch, the staff aka my African Children (Mary, Millie and Elvis) exchanged beautiful thoughts of love+gratitude, hugs, kisses and a lot of tears. We will miss each other SO MUCH. I always say, “You get what you give” and we all gave each other so much!!

    ….Mary and Millie had given Me this dress this morning to remember them. I thought that was SO SWEET. Then after lunch they came out of one of the bedrooms, surprising Me by wearing MATCHING DRESSES they had made for us!!!!😍 I will miss their thoughtfulness, caring, witty ways and endless singing❀️❀️

    Elvis and Richmond peeled us ladies apart and put Me in the car for our journey to the airport. πŸ’” While in Accra, I was able to meet Elvis’ Mother and then Richmond’s Mother+Sisters in their shops/homes. What a treat it was to meet these wonderful women who raised these stellar guys that I love so much!!

    Ran a few errands in the Big City and then said the last Goodbyes to my African sons curbside at the airport. Ugh!!! Pretty sure the White Lady in the African smock (thank you Elvis❀️) was still crying at Security Check-In

    It’s almost time to board now so it’s time to say SEE YOU SOON!!! Hope to get some sleep on the flight then looking forward to a nice overnight visit with friends in DC tomorrow before off to Maine Wed afternoon!! 🦞 ✈️🦞

    Goodbye Africa, Goodbye my Dear Friends. What an amazing adventure this has been surrounded by all of You!! I love you deeply and will always treasure our time together. Thank you with all of my heart!!

    As you know, I only learned a tiny bit of Ewe while here but I will bid my African Friends Farewell with an old Irish saying that hung in our childhood home, “May the road rise to meet you, May the wind be at your Back. And May the Lord hold you always in the Hollow of His (or Her) hand until we meet again”. πŸ™πŸ½+πŸ™πŸ»=πŸŽ‰πŸ₯³πŸŽŠ

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